Saturday, August 27, 2011

MORE TIDBITS FROM A HALF-WHIT


Tidbit # 15: "Elegance and tacky combined creates an integrated whole that remains humbly complete". Brenna Brown

Tidbit # 16: "If we could just get the styles and trends to go with the 'older' look then we wouldn't have to work so hard to look younger and we could reverse the pressure to put it on the ones who have the energy". Brenna Brown

Tidbit #17: " The frightening thing about perceiving a deception is you may not be able to save anyone but yourself from it". Brenna Brown

Tidbit # 18: "Survival of the fittest in the spiritual aspect doesn't necessarrily mean you are the strongest. It means you are one of the worthiest". Brenna Brown

Tidbit #19: "In the beginning when the life plan was initiated it did not include a retirement package. Life is not about working toward a good retirement, its about learning continuous work is the source of creation". Brenna Brown

Tidbit # 20: "Make enthusiasm a goal and you will either be really inspiring or really annoying".
Brenna Brown

Sunday, January 9, 2011

A FEW NEW TIDBITS FROM A HALF-WIT

Tidbit #11 : "Giving to the undeserving recipient teaches us where judgment lies and where unconditional love stands in the eternal realm of things". Brenna Brown

Tidbit #12 : "Stiving to become a memory worth remembering is very hard work. The alternative though is being forgotten". Brenna Brown

Tidbit # 13: "Remember there is a really big difference between trying to be the Savior and trying to be like the Savior. I believe there was a hub-bub about this once before wasn't there"? Brenna Brown

Tidbit # 14: "Ambivalence is the dual control we utilize as we strive for perfection. Ambivalence is shed as the control becomes single to the glory of God". Brenna Brown

Saturday, December 4, 2010

ESSAY ENTITLED - THE JENGA THEORY







Abortion, gay marriage, gun control, affirmative action or any other issue that has a support or do not support stance have a common problem. This essay will use the issue of abortion contrasted to the game of Jenga to focus on a destruction that occurs and is overlooked in the passionate fight for what is right or wrong, fair or unfair and yet, sincerely fought with respect to inalienable rights. In a country where people pledge allegiance as "one nation under God, indivisible, with libery and justice for all", unity is at risk of estrangement when definitions change through newly developed interpretations. The destruction, how ever, is a potential result of all the above mentioned issues and is the main focus of this essay, not the issues themselves. Therefore, there will be no argument for or against any issue but an interesting warning pertaining to them all.

For any society to successfully exist it is important to create laws. When implemented, these laws protect citizens from mayhem that would occur if they were not in place. Simple laws that deal with murder,adultery, stealing and lying instill boundaries that protect life, family, possessions, honesty and integrity. A boundary is a designated point that when crossed out of or into constitutes a violation. Action must be taken to protect the purpose for which the boundary was created or it will dissipate and become void. Most of the time the action is one to extend the border to include more area in the name of fairness and tolerance, however, this action should be utilized with caution. There is wisdom in acknowledging that to extend a boundary can sometimes create too wide of an area, and the sheer number of those it is protecting becomes so massive that the protection of all begins to be compromised because of the change.

When laws are first put into place, they can be likened to the tower of individual blocks of wood stacked on top of one another in the game of Jenga. Each layer of blocks alternates their direction from the previous layer in order to create strength, so that when the tower is finished or the law is created it is a firm and sturdy beacon. It is a warning or a guiding ensign that can clearly be seen because of its solidarity and understood because of its simplistic black and white construction. In its infancy because it is black and white, to destroy the law outright would be to reveal a desire to replace right with wrong, good with evil, or justice with injustice. If the sole intention were to destroy the law, a much more subtle plan causing the law, in the end, to destroy itself would be much more effective. It would leave us blindly deceived and wondering what went wrong with society instead of recognizing the slow, deliberate demise of the law. Over a long period of time and without toppling the tower, slowly removing the strength-empowering individual blocks could be a hidden and covert objective leading to the inevitable self-destruction and annihilation of the law.

Let's take the tower or law regarding murder. The black and white perception of this law is that no one has the right to intentionally and maliciously take the life of another. Some may begin to argue that this cannot be a black and white issue and begin to cite situations that would constitute a gray area to consider. For instance, is abortion considered murder? One block might be removed stating abortion is not murder until the third trimester of pregnancy at which point the viability of the fetus is recognized. Another removable block could be that aborting the fetus is not murder because it is a constitutional right to have one. Within the care-taking of this tower or law, appointed judges have the ability to affirm each block that is in the process of being removed by individuals that have lost sight of black and white in the endless pursuit of gray. The judges affirmation creates the redefining of what constitues murder and removes a block that generates a gray area. The boundary is extended to protect the woman while subtly and inconspicuously it eliminates the fetus. This extention of the law weakens the tower when it comes to the original strength of protecting life, which is a black and white area. The black and white fuses into gray as this slow process continues block by block. The law eventually falls in upon itself and we see murder in all its grayness being committed without a single law in place to stop it. The boundary is extended so that its protection of life is non-existent for those it would have protected in the past.

In Jenga, as individual blocks are removed the eventual fall of the tower is inevitable and the person who removes the block that collapses the tower is the loser. The winner has nothing but the claim that they didn't directly cause the fall. Both winner and loser are left to wonder what the purpose in the game was if the result is the destruction of a once strong tower.

This theory can raise the same questions when analytically compared to laws. It promotes awareness that although there are no perfect laws, we must be careful not to remove solid definitions and interpretations that would ultimately lead to the destruction of those laws. Does one support abortion or not? That's not the point here. The point is whether we understand what the law is trying to protect and not lose sight of it as we consider what it does or does not preside over. Are we protecting the supports that maintain strong laws or are we removing supports that will eventually destroy them?

In the news where it is reported daily that murder is not murder, stealing is not stealing and a whole host of other lack of law paradoxes thrive, we better wake up and consider the fact that the destruction of the law could have been the purpose of the game. There is an inherit evil in the world today that has been in existence since the world began. Its sole purpose is to impede our acquiring the knowledge that protection of choice lies within certain boundaries. By extending the boundaries the protection of choice can slowly be eliminated quite simply through too much environ between good and evil, or too much gray between black and white.

Thus, we have the Jenga theory. A theory is considered proven only after facts and results back up the hypothesis for a specified amount of time. If the Jenga theory proves to be right, the scarey outcome is that the tower will fall into a pile of unorganized, grayish hued interpretations that only serve to contradict each other. This scenario promotes no other option except having to sacrifice one to protect another resulting in no solid protection for all. The real objective of destroying the law is either never realized or because of pride purposely ignored. The confusion leaves us to ponder how we got ourselves into the mess and hides from the ignorant players the hidden victory. The anarchy also conceals the strategy of the enemy, thus assuring its use on other towers in the future. Hopefully, amid all the chaos it will not be too late for us to blindly stumble and sift through the gray to find black and white to begin building again. Oh well, while we are waiting, anyone up for a game of Jenga?

Thursday, November 25, 2010

A FEW NEW TIDBITS FROM A HALF-WIT

Tidbit # 6 : "The gestation period for immortality begins when the last breath of mortal life is taken". Brenna Brown

Tidbit # 7 : "Never let the adversary convince you to concentrate so much on the due date of promised blessings that you forget they have no expiration date". Brenna Brown

Tidbit #8 : "The only thing that Satan needs to convince a lost sheep to believe is that the search party sent out from the fold is hounding them, not exhorting them". Brenna Brown

Tidbit #9: "The only way God and Christ can become a mystery is if we only think of them as the Father and the Son metaphorically". Brenna Brown

Tidbit # 10: "I coulda, shoulda, woulda means your wasting valuable time. You canna, shalla, willa is the more productive mantra". Brenna Brown

TO MY FIRSTBORN ERICA WHO CAME A LITTLE EARLIER THAN EXPECTED INTO MY UNPREPARED, KAOTIC ATTEMPTS OF LOOKING LIKE I KNEW WHAT I WAS DOING!




Erica, as my firstborn you were my eye-opener. You came about a month earlier than expected. When my water broke in bed that morning I didn't realize you wanted out, I just thought I had pee'd the bed. It never dawned on me until after your fast and furious delivery that I had missed one of the most blatent signs of going into labor! Hence, proof that my naivety and sheer lack of common sense in an emergency situation totally exposed me as the unprepared, ignorant co-creator I was! Thank goodness the other two creators in your life, your earthly father and your Heavenly Father, were around to edit and override my mothering journey so in the end, all you children survived relatively unscathed.
Motherhood was a difficult road for me because my second, third and even fourth born came so quickly after you. Somehow, in spite of the circumstances, you developed the ability to become special, unique and choice. You wandered from the path of who you wanted to be for a small season but never so far as to not know your way back. You came back with great fury establishing who you are, why you are here and where you want to go! You are much like the wonderful photographer you have become. You take pictures and develope the negatives into positive images that reflect eternal purpose. As a mother you are the greatest example in demonstrating that raising children is the most important picture you can frame. Many times I witness and learn things I should have done differently and with more emphasis from watching you raise your children and of course, your husband. I can gain closure to mistakes I made when I see your wisdom in avoiding those mistakes with your family. It gives me the ability to say, "I should have..." with resolve instead of hanging on to destructive guilt. Thank you for that gift. It is a joy to watch as you run full steam ahead, in fifty different directions, doing all that a mother does and discovering that exhaustion and exhilaration somehow magically can be morphed together to create a whole new attribute that shapes the next generation. You do good work! I love you very much! Mom









Sunday, August 22, 2010

A FEW NEW TIDBITS FROM A HALF-WIT

Tidbit #3: "Doesn't it seem that if people are paid to preach the gospel they should be defined as employees with a job to do instead of servants with a mission to fulfill"? Brenna Brown

Tidbit #4: "To think the world came into existence without a who and a why gives no one a reason to learn the what, where, when and how". Brenna Brown

Tidbit #5: "The priorities you approach mid-life with will determine whether you will have a crisis or a christening".
Brenna Brown

TO MY DAUGHTER SANDI - MY HAIR TWISTER BABY THAT NEARLY MADE MY HAIR FALL OUT

Sandi, you have a spirit and a will that drives you forward. I believe you have somehow inherited that drive from the Houston side of the family because their motto has always been "I'm happy as long as the wheels are rolling". Your Aunt Bobbi and Mamaw Rose precede you there. Possessing this nature has given you a zest for life and was the cause of many a stress filled worry for your mother. It has given you a brightness making you a fun-loving, adventurous and an active player in the game of life. For one brief moment, I saw that brightness snuffed from your countenance. It was like watching a candle's illuminate flame covered until the oxygen is spent. Watching that light totally disappear in such a short amount of time was one of the most terrifying moments of my life. True to your nature you rose above and relit yourself with all you knew you deserved and more. In reclaiming these things for yourself, you have the experience to teach the truth that maintaining self worth is one's own responsibility. As a result you have a family that consists of equality and mutual respect. A family that loves and supports each other enough to allow each individual the wings to fly solo without feeling alone in the process. I love you. Mom